Teens and sex goes hand in hand with growing up. I give thanks to the Almight that I have a nice relationship with my teens. We talk about everything and they know that my doors are open no matter what. I think if parents start losing communication with there children at an earlier age there maybe no hope later. It's hard to change minds of teens. They believe that the world evolves around them but in reality it doesn't and if you try to teach them that they go on a defensive and there is no going around that. I believe that if you try to keep your relationship with your children from a very young age and actually listen to them they can surprise you; when its time to tell you something important, they know you wouldn't judge them or lecture them but even if you flip out they know you will but will come around and help them figure it out. Don't give them the answers they need to learn from there own experiences. Let's not play stupid but actually get smart about sex.You already know that teens are going to have sex whether you like it or not. The more you tell them no, the more they are going to do it. Instead of forbidin it; you should at least talk to them about safe sex, STDs and Preventing pregnancy and to tell females that no matter what your partner says always where condoms or no sex. Make them promise that to you but more to them to keep smart and safe.
Bottom line: To have sex make sure they are ready to except that adult responsibility.
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