I like every other women in the world has thought about that wonderful five year plan, but I am not like normal women. I actually think like a guy……
I know, I know you probably is tripping about that little remark, but its perfectly true and if you ever met my true friends (well actually the ones that really knows me that is) they would tell you too. I drive like a man, I dismiss guys/girls like a man, I even enjoy toys and gadgets like men but that I even think like a guy. If that is even possible…
I am perfectly okay with my feminine side and trust me I love fashion and shopping like the next girl but when it comes down to it; I sometimes can kick ass like the best of them. Maybe its because I have brothers and I grew up with them and their friends. I have a gift of looking at a guy and can actually tell you a lot about him too. I guess my brothers actually instilled that gift, lmao!
Ok, not to jump into another subject but I have a lot of guy friends, probably because I don’t get alone with woman. They find me a bit intimidating or something. Like I would still there boyfriends and you know what… I probably would because no matter how high my standard morals are they always find away to flirt with me and touch me gently to let me know they like me but I NEVER, EVER go out with my girlfriend’s boyfriends. It totally complicates things.
Now, my cousin has been bugging me about this little secret I have… Oh, wait you want to know too? I guess I will share but its really not a secret. Men are lonely or want excitement as the next woman does. Trust me, Men and Women are really not that different as everyone wants to believe. I have a regular male friend, which I consider my Sugar Daddy. Again, perfect gentleman and very respectful. Never slept with him but he always seek out my companionship such as hanging out and talking. I have known him for 11 years that's why I call him my regular. We speak on the phone and everything. If I want to be honest, I personally never made it as a good girlfriend, but with him I am the perfect girlfriend when I hangout with him and do things with my kids. No expectations, no lies, no complications, no nothing just a one night deal. What could a girl like me ask for?
Now, back to my five year plan:
1. I want to have my own apartment or townhouse in New York/New Jersey (not to big and not to small, just perfect).
2. I don’t want anymore kids… I have 4 already!
3. I always have guys buying me jewelry, and stuff; so I would want a big closet just for my shoes, clothes and jewelry. (One day someone will walk up to me and be like “Oh, nice necklace” and I will say “This? Oh, a perfect gentleman gave it to me!” **Smiles**
4. To finish my house in Puerto Rico. Its half completed but it needs a bit more.
5. I would probably be married in New York/New Jersey with a rich man but have a boyfriend in Puerto Rico or even back in Minnesota. (Now you see where my friends think I totally think and act like a guy?) They even call me Samantha Jones from Sex in the City. Now, that's a bit much if you ask me but I can totally see it sometimes. Please it shouldn’t even be a shocker! I get bored with men unless I find that perfect someone, which now a days is near impossible to me. They lack in something and brings a sense of flaw to the guy. Yuck!
6. My own ride-2012 Ford Mustang Boss with my favorite color. I will let you guess on that color….
You see simple and realistic… I love it already. My five year plan!!!
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