The "F" Buddy

I know! I Know! But you can't help but look at this person and ask yourself "What If?" Let me back up alittle, I know that there has been a guy in a girls world that you just couldn't see yourself with them but had the most wonderful sex but he was the most boring ass person in the world. You know exactly who I am talking about. The guy who you can't seem to be in a relationship with. I think it goes for relationships too.

Now let's talk about being with a person where the sex isn't all that great but the mental part is the most sweeties. Aaahhhh! You know who I am talking about that guy whose laying right next to you right now. I seem to figure out that you need to work hard in a relationship like that because you apparently can't have both.

You ask me how? I'll tell you how. In a relationship, you need to was keep it fresh; imagine or fantasy on what you would like to do. Be for warn nothing too freaky. Some guys will get totally freaked out by this. Keep tasteful and simple. You can never go wrong with that for a starters until both are ready to go to the next level. Figure out what he likes or what his into. Remember keep it simple. You don't want to scare him off. Try taking a shower or bath together, candles, slow music unless your trying to do a quicky than go for fast music. I'm pretty sure you go the idea. Now run off and go have sex with that special someone, who says you can't have wonderful sex and mind blowing comversation.

If you like please post any suggests to other readers to try. Thank you!

Teens and Sex!

Teens and sex goes hand in hand with growing up. I give thanks to the Almight that I have a nice relationship with my teens. We talk about everything and they know that my doors are open no matter what. I think if parents start losing communication with there children at an earlier age there maybe no hope later. It's hard to change minds of teens. They believe that the world evolves around them but in reality it doesn't and if you try to teach them that they go on a defensive and there is no going around that. I believe that if you try to keep your relationship with your children from a very young age and actually listen to them they can surprise you; when its time to tell you something important, they know you wouldn't judge them or lecture them but even if you flip out they know you will but will come around and help them figure it out. Don't give them the answers they need to learn from there own experiences. Let's not play stupid but actually get smart about sex.You already know that teens are going to have sex whether you like it or not. The more you tell them no, the more they are going to do it. Instead of forbidin it; you should at least talk to them about safe sex, STDs and Preventing pregnancy and to tell females that no matter what your partner says always where condoms or no sex. Make them promise that to you but more to them to keep smart and safe.

Bottom line: To have sex make sure they are ready to except that adult responsibility. 

Infamous as can be!!!!

I walk into a room and boom everyone gets quite. I say to myself  am I wearing my dress or shirt backwards? Well, apparently I am not its just that everyone in that is staring at me. But why? I not anyone famous like Angelina Jolie or Brittney Spears. I know all kinds of people. I go back home and everyone knows me and my family. Some people think its my sex apppeal or that I am known as Sex Kitten. Either way I don't understand why people treat me like that at all. It makes me feel alittle uneasy. You just have people was talking about you or spreading rumors. Its just weird to me. What do you think?