Fang-Banger or Fur-Banger???? You Tell Me!!!

As almost everyone ones that one of my favorite TV shows is True Blood and the other is The Vampire Diaries. Since this is more about True Blood than Vampire Diaries; I will discuss that show much later when it comes back on in the Fall (Sept. 2010)

Well, I am having a difficult time deciding between being a Fang-Banger or a Fur-Banger. For those of you who are not in the know; I will explain the difference. You must know that Fang-Banger are people that have sex with Vampires and therefore Fur-Bangers are the people who have sex with Werewolves. So, the show has so much sexy men and women in it and all the sex you can image that goes on in the world of True Blood, geez I am just having a hard time. You see I only like one werewolf and that is Alcide Herveaux (Joe Manganiello) just gorgeous. Now, for Vampires I have too many to choice from like Eric Northman (Alexander Skarsgard), Bill Compton (Stephen Moyer) and my newest favorite character Franklin Mott (James Frain).

Here is a favorite quote from Franklin Mott:

"True Blood: Trouble (#3.5)" (2010)

Tara Thornton: We need to talk.
Franklin Mott: Don't say that to me. When women say that everything goes black and I wake up surrounded by body parts.

**Notes** (how many men would love to say these things to there wife or girlfriend??? huh???)

I love all four characters and here’s why:

Eric: Besides that he is very tall, lean and sexy and he should be forbidden in the real world for those looks. His character is so appealing because of his frankness and much sex appeal with such awareness of who he is and use that power to the fullest. I would think a vamp would be like that if he was gorgeous and finds humans annoying.Eric can also be very beastly when he wants too, which that animal magnetism brings you to the dark side. BTW that nudity is always a pleasure to see.

Bill: On the other hand, Bill is too gentlemanly and a bitch sometimes but his gorgeous in his right. His fighting skills and the way his aims are I would give him a 8 for them. I am starting to grow very tiresome of him and his too predictable for me just like Vamps with souls and whiny ones.

Franklin: Now, this character stands all on his own. Every bit psycho and possessive.  His so funny and beastly in one. This type of vamp I could image Vampires being close too because if I lived hundreds or centuries long I would be completely mad by now. Too much drama from the world for to deal with. He brings out the real you when you want to feel crazy and the darker side of you.

Alcide: What can I say all that nudity and changing just fascinated me. Besides, his like a wounded wolf that needs attention. You can never fail with the look.

Alcide, Eric, Franklin and Bill

Early Morning Loving (Without the Sex)

I knew that title would catch your eye. I know that everyone has has that close to perfect date or moment when the world is so quiet and its just the two of you that nothing else matters. Well, I had that moment today with my friend this morning. I haven’t had a moment like that in years and I do mean years.  We talked about everything and anything. I really enjoyed his company and the conversation. He can hold up a conversation and his smart and funny. He put a smile on my face to last me the whole weekend or until I see him again. SCF is the best. ***Muah****

Could my life get any complicated than this????

Tonight or should I say very early in the morning I got a call, like at 1 am from Lex Luther (Mr. Right with all the money).  His is tall and very sexy, bald and muscles everywhere but (Wait) before I get distracted I will tell you what’s going on.

This is kind of messed up a little but I see a lot more clearly. They are actually a few dudes that I actually love (like a handful to be exact). He of course is one of them. Lex Luther and I use to go out for a few months before I met Superman. Everything was great and I was having fun with him but something again was missing from that relationship. I was still going out with Lex Luther, when I met Superman. I remember the big fight I was having with Lex that day. I had to make a decision on who I wanted to be with. So, I choose to be with Superman of course. The only one thing is that Superman didn’t know anything about Lex and my relationship with him but Lex knew about Superman. Now, I don’t regret anything about that situation because things happen for a reason. So apparently, Lex left to Kentucky for a bit and I stood with Superman for 4 months before he left. So I had time to go over all my relationship with both of them for the 1 year and half that they both are gone. I kept in contact with them and we discussed a lot about what we wanted but I think my heart belongs to Lex more than Superman. It has nothing to do with the money or anything like that.     

They are both different and I think Lex will make me more happier at the end than Superman. Point blank. No matter how you try to compare and make things rationale that at the end Lex wins out.

Weddings & Things

“Who says you have to be a virgin to where a white wedding dress? Or that you have to be a prince to marry the princess? Or that the fairy godmother has to carry a wand?”

That just seem like politics to me.

As I sit and watch my friends get married it all seems like a dream to me because I have been married 3 times, that’s right 3 times.

The first with Tony was wonderful, no matter the reasons why we married; I called him back in 2007 and he was happy to hear from me and he told me he still loved me no matter what. I was only 19 (he was 24) and I think I was not too ready to settle down or just wanted him because I could. That’s a pride thing… You wouldn’t understand it.

Now, my second marriage lasted a little longer as for 2 years and Henry was okay but he was younger than me; he was 19 and I was 26, when we got married. Now you see the pattern going on here, I do very clearly. We don’t speak at all and I saw him a few years back walking into a pawn shop but never spoke to him.  Besides, he slept with my close friend at  the time on my birthday. If that wasn’t a deal breaker than what is? That was a terrible divorce but a grand learning experience.

Than there was the third one, Julian. The rebound marriage. If that is even possible. I was talking to him while I was divorcing Henry. I didn’t know what I was getting myself into when I married him. I didn’t let myself get over the breakup/divorce. I just basically jumped into another marriage without the thinking how it will hurt me in the long run. This time it only lasted 1 year of marriage but was together 1 year before.

Going through all of this when I finally met Tone, I was going through the same cycle that he broke up with me and I was on overload of emotions that I got really depressed and sick for months and months  from jumping through relationships. These are not even including my kids father. So, you can imagine bouncing back from those situations that by my choice I stay single to get to know me. Yes, I will date but I am not in a serious relationship and I definitely don’t take guys serious anymore. I have learned new and still apply the old rules of dating and relationship rules.

The main advice from all of this is: “Take your time, there is no rush to be in a relationship that will go nowhere. You must love yourself before loving the next person. It’s okay to be single and don’t let your family or friends rush you neither. You will find a way to get out of the rut sooner or later.” –Sex Kitten