Girlfriends And Associates….

I know that I have been writing about guys but I won’t let my girl-friends feel bad since they too read my blog and some are pretty upset that I have not or never mentioned them. Geez, I got the hint girls. Ok, where should I start than? Well, there’s Kat, Jada, Natalia, Sandra, Jackie, Liza and Deena; of course, I changed their names but they know who they are. I love them dearly no matter how things get, its always a win-win situation with them.

Jada- I can write a book about her. I known her for over 6 years or so. Jada is a Label Whore and into fashion. We use to do everything together until one day Superman showed up and she got into a jealousy rage. Apparently, he use to date her older sister a very long time ago. I do mean way before I met any of them. It was by chance I met Superman not though anyone else. She was getting upset that he was treating me very differently and I guess he use to treat her sister really bad. He pulled out the horses with coach for me. I have always hanged out with her no matter if anyone else liked her, which a lot of guys didn’t but they would be quick to have sex with her. I don’t know but her sister one day started talking shit through text messaging and we all stopped talking but payback is a bitch and one day she will know what I mean. Right, sweetie!!!

Kat- All the lovely Kat known her for over 8 years now. She’s married and has a wonderful son. We stopped talking because of my son’s father Mr. Egotistic. So there is really not much to say about except I thought she was my friend not Mr. Egotistic friend. She doesn’t even call me but she does Hector more than me. Yes, I am very bitter about it. I loved being with her but those days are through more or less.

Natalia- I at least see her every other day or week. She understands me a lot better than most of other girls I guess. We like the same things and its fun talking to her. I love her for that and very thankful.

Sandra- A wonderful friend and very sweet and funny. I like her jokes and her sincerity of life. She is a very optimistic person and a problem solver. She has been there for Superman and me, along with her family; which her son is Superman’s best friends. If you get that, ha ha ha.

Liza & Jackie & Raymond- This is a friendship of eternity, loyal and passionate one. We all have been friends since I was 18 years-old. We were inseparable until Mr. Egotistic again came between us for a short period of time. You see Mr. Egotistic could never stand the fact that I had friends and I was always with them. His ugly jealousy always showed and reared its ugly head all the time when we were together. We did everything together and always got into trouble together and got out of trouble together. If they would let us, we would of ruled the world together. That’s how are relationship was. Jackie lives in Puerto Rico with her kids, Liza and Raymond still live in Florida and for me, I am in Minnesota.

Deena- I love it when she comes around. We click like locks. I have nothing bad to say about her.

So here are my comments and thoughts of everyone.

Bad Romance For Real!!!

I seem to always attract guys that only want to have sex all the time with me. BORING!!! Don’t let my name Sex Kitten fool you. It has nothing to do with sex. Now a days, it seems that I only get to see four walls with guys and that has to end now. They don’t take me out or nothing. I am personally will stop dating for a very long time (wait can you even call that dating if only you see the four walls???), besides Superman comes home in 7 months. I still haven’t decided what I am going to do about that.

This is it, I am staying clear of men for a bit. Why lie about it? I am not feeling any of them. I am not even close to attraction or love any of them. Superman was the only one who awakened something in me. I truly gave up on love and romance. I was so bitter and cynical, when I met Superman but we talked for months before we actually started going out for a date or before I met his family. I don’t think even Lex was truly able to break through my walls or anything else.

Just When You Thought You Would Never….

What a title, huh? Today has been a pretty much beautiful day. My daughter’s birthday and a couple of my friends, too. I had to go to court for child support today with baby daddy number 3, Mr. Egotistic is his name. Yeah, you know the one who thinks his so important that he takes hours to primp himself before walking out the door. Anyway, it went pretty well. I got what I wanted and so did he. Deena actually came with me just because I don’t trust Mr. Egotistic so much. I didn’t know what to expect or think. So, I had her tag along with me. Just in case there was a lot of tension; which there wasn’t “Thank, God!”

I haven’t seen Tammy in over 2 years and I ran into her today of all days with her Baby Daddy, which I totally forgot his name. Awkward, huh? Well, I may have on purposely forgotten his name. I totally can’t remember it for the life of me. He was always trying to hook up with me and I don’t personally go out with my girl-friends exes. I think that is really disrespectful totally. He was watching me and teasing me because I was wearing pink to court and stuff. He actually said if I was a little too old to wear pink. Ok, I was insulated and I told him that Pink is for anyone young at heart. Oh, wait you must be really old than? Besides, its the summer color for fashion, WOW!

I was a smart-ass of course. I had too be since I was not about to let him bring me down on my daughter’s birthday. He started asking me where I lived and things like that. I was being really skeptical of his questions and I gave him very vague answers.

**NOTE** So, I am very glad that I never received that call at all as of yet….