Girls Listen Up-7 Type of Guys To Not Date…

1. The Rebound Guys- They are always comparing you with his ex-girlfriend and with a new girl they don’t have to deal with their emotions. So wait till they are totally done recuperating. Example will be Guy Ritchie!!

2. The Disappearing Guys-Please ladies be really smart about this and don’t fall for this at all, here it goes: excuses like “works really busy” may be true, but often something else going on. The give away is erratic contact-in touch everyday then suddenly MIA…or all of a sudden wants to meet up in an hour after not calling all week…. BEWARE!!!

3. Slick Guys- Hiding behind high-tech gadgets, fancy clothes looking like a GQ model,now you know something is wrong with him, so don’t over look the guys that are not well put together at least you know they are “Real”….

4. The Rude Guys-Basically, if a guy lets the door slam shut instead of opening it for you, make that all the closure you need, he plays with his Blackberry or any phone during dinner, or asking another chick for her number while your in the bathroom, is a no-no!!!!

5. The Grabby Guys- You know the guy who can’t keep his hands off you. No matter how smoking hot you are, he can help himself to wait and if your not getting any respect you want early on, he probably won’t surprise you later neither.

6. The Last Year Guys-Going back to an ex may seem like a safe thing to do because you are thinking about those long night alone and having a fear of being by yourself. Recycling your romance is a bad thing because you will end up breaking up again for the same reason why you broke up the first time. Waste of time! Just move on! Trust me, its better to meet someone new than go through the emotional roller coaster ride all over again on repeat….

7. The Stalker Type Guys-The ones that are constantly stalking you something very obsessed or psycho kind.You ladies know what I am talking about. So please try your best to be safe and stay away from them….

Curiosity Killed The Cat, I Think!

I was sitting outside today and was pondering the way relationships work and how people actually meet. God knows I am no expert but I know want I like and dislike as far as what I want in a relationship. As I said before I am not looking for Mr. Right or anything close to that. Maybe I sometimes feel like being alone. I actually like being in my own company. Some people find that weird but for me it is so natural that I think its actually normal somehow. Sex is not to be taken lightly or depreciated by anyone. For me I have to have a partner that appreciates me in a sense that we take our time having sex and rush sometimes. I don’t mean it has to be always romantic or nothing like that. I do love romance let me tell you. I am a sucker for the romance and surprises. Literally!  But the passion has to be there to even fuel the fire and spark an ignition of some sort. Even opposites attract have some connection. But how and why; is what I want to know and how do you know if that is the person you are meant for because a lot of mistake lust or love so many times it isn't even funny. I would like people’s input and this would be a great topic to talk about too. So hit me up on email or here leave a comment….

From Dead To Worse

If that’s even possible…I know I am not dead or else I wouldn’t be writing this right now but I could be. Life again has taken an unexpected turn in my future. When things don’t go right I get stressed out and some would say stop worrying it will work out some how. Well, that’s not a good enough answer to me. No matter how many tears you shred you can’t possible know how I feel about everything that is going on in my life. I am so frustrated and pissed off. I don’t know if things will ever get better. Sometimes I never believe it will ever get better or near good.  My relationships are deterring away slowly but surely. My best friend don’t talk to me anymore because of Superman. I sometimes don’t want anything with him or any other guy for that matter. You never get another chance so I don’t bother to ask for another. I lost interest in Phoenix so I won’t even want to talk to him anymore. I feel like I am totally secluding myself now from everyone and everything I even like. I miss my father and my brother Dondi. I want to go back home to New Jersey but struck here in Minnesota and this hell hole is killing me so slowly. Everyone is too busy in there own to even notice the pain I am caring with me everyday. That’s all right I like the way it hurts and I am use to it now.

Wisin &Yandel-Target Center Concert August 6th-Minneapolis

As people already know I have gone to the Wisin & Yandel concert this month. It was off the hook. I got to meet the guys backstage and hangout with the them the next day. The girls (Desi & Nessa) where in heaven. We got to go on the tour bus, hangout in the back at the Target Center during sound check and went to the after party with them. The next day we went bowling, out to eat and just hangout in the tour bus. I was living it up that weekend.  I look forward to seeing them again in concert and meeting up with them. One weekend well spent…

 

 

Cairo Home Finally!!

You couldn’t possible understand how happy and excited to have Cairo back home finally. He was really scared and angry with me for leaving him.

I will never leave my doggie with anyone ever again. He goes everywhere with me for now on. This is my road-dog right here. Next time I go on a trip if he can’t fly in that airplane neither will I . I banned all airlines that don’t allow animals to travel for now on. To get my dog back I had to go through hell funny it may seem now but pure hell to go through. I am just glad his home and its all over now. Love You Cairo!!!!!